21: ONE tool that works for ALL Anxious Archetypes

The ONE Tool That Works for ALL Anxious Archetypes 🎧

I’ve been using this tool in my own life and relationship, and let me tell you, it’s a GAME CHANGER. 🎮

It’s called THE OPPOSITE SKILL 🪄, and it’s a must-know if you’re working on calming your nervous system and transforming how you react in moments of anxiety or conflict.

Here’s the deal:

When we feel anxious, our bodies go into fight-or-flight mode. Our heart races, our breath becomes shallow, and we feel the need to either run away or defend ourselves. This is your body trying to protect you, but when it comes to relationships, this can be EXHAUSTING. 😣

That’s where the Opposite Skill comes in. It’s all about doing the opposite of what your body is telling you to do—essentially, teaching your brain that you’re safe. 🧘‍♀️

 

🎙️ In this episode, we’ll talk about:

💪 How anxiety triggers our fight-or-flight response in relationships
🧠 Why the Opposite Skill helps reset your nervous system
🪄 How to apply the Opposite Skill for each Anxious Archetype (The Warrior, The Dreamer, The Pleaser, and The Overachiever)
💖 My own personal experience and how this tool has helped me stay calm when triggered

Trust me, if you’ve been feeling like your nervous system is on overdrive, you’ll want to hear this.

🎧 Listen now

 

🖤✨ Jula

P.S. This is your reminder: YOU are safe, even in those tough moments. Let’s reset and find your calm together. 💖

 

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Disclaimer: My content is not meant for anyone in abusive relationships.

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